WIVES ONLY! Am I the only wife out there that strictly hates when your husband watches porn?

Does everyone think that is is okay for your husband to lust.. or "pleasure" himself by looking at other women? I feel like I am the only one that is so against it. Especially if he isn't interested in you in bed, while can be interested to the computer. It disgusts me, what do other you other wives say?WIVES ONLY! Am I the only wife out there that strictly hates when your husband watches porn?
Well I am not a wife, but I am a girlfriend of a guy for 2 and a half years now.. And I am also 100% against it. It disgusts me I told him that by him watching porn, I feel he is cheating on me. Him and I have broken up a lot because of it and I will break up with him again if I ever find out he's done it.. Tell your husband how you feel because you deserve a man who is willing to give it up for you. If he is not interested in you in bed, then maybe something bigger is going on..... Is he cheating on you? I'd find out... If not, then maybe you just need to do some things to turn him on. Which will probably be hard. Because I know that after I catch my boyfriend or find out about it, it makes me sick to think of having sex with him at all. And I have a to wait awhile before I will again.

I thought I was the only one too.. But I know that there are other people out there who hate it.
shin m tell him how you feel about his watching porn, if you have before he needs to destroy the computer or at least move it to where is under you view this way he will not be so willing to pleasure himself. but unless you tell him how you feel he will not change, do understand that it is not about you but he seems to have become addicted to it for his own pleasure, I would suggest that he and you both go and see a family counselor; his actions can lead to divorce especially if he ignores you and your needs to be love.WIVES ONLY! Am I the only wife out there that strictly hates when your husband watches porn?
I don't care but he really doesn't watch it very often. And he never tries to hide it. He would only watch it if i wanted to with him. So i really don't mind it but like i said, we don't watch it very often (maybe like once or twice a year) but we have a great sex life. Maybe you should try watching it with him or try different things to get his attention and save your sex life. They have some videos that are more instructional and tell you different things you could try. (I wouldn't watch the nasty ones but the instructional ones can teach you things). It sounds to me that you and your husband need help in the bedroom and maybe he's just watching porn to keep his interests. If i were you, i'd try dressing up or something to respark the flame. To be honest with you, i'd try to do something before he tries to cheat or something to satisfy his needs. Sorry if you don't like the answer but i'd try counseling or anything while you still have the chance.
No, you're not alone. While I've never had an issue with it myself, it WOULD be an issue if he preferred it to being with me, or needed it to get aroused to be with me.



Otheriwse, I'm not the least bit threatened by chicks in porn. He can just as easily use his imagination (porn is just simpler) and you've got no control over what goes through his head. Many people fantasize about others during sex or self pleasuring.



It's up to you to accept being 2nd to porn if he doesn't want to be with you sexually. I'd find that unacceptable.WIVES ONLY! Am I the only wife out there that strictly hates when your husband watches porn?
I'm not a WIFE but I feel the same way. I rip up porn and break cd's, I think it is completely disrespectful and it saddens me that it has become so 'acceptable'. Turn the situation around. He walks in on you looking at hot naked men.. and using it to pleasure yourself. A lot of guys would not like that.
he is getting it on line because you are not giving him what he needs ... you must be a no i dont like that ... dont touch me there ... dont do this .... I have a head ache .... heck we did it last year ... and so on ... clean up your act be ..desireable and he will focus on you ...if you do not know how.... got to a sex therapist alone and the therapsit will be able to help ....good luck ...
Im not married but my boyfriend does not watch porn. His ex made him feel disgusting and evil for watching porn so he dont anymore. I wouldnt mind if he wanted to though,coz i know sometimes he wants to, as long as he still wanted to be with me. If that changed, i think my opinion about it would change too
I AGREE ITS TOTALLY WRONG AND ITS DISGSUTING..AND A MAN WHO NEEDS TO DO THIS HAS SOME SERIOUS PERSONAL ISSUES HE NEES TO DEAL WITH..MY ATITUDE WOULD BE..IF YOU DONT WANT SEX WITH ME GO AND HAVE IT WITH YOUR PORN BABES AND SEE HOW HE GETS ON WITH A SEX ...BAN..FOR A LONG WHILE...HE MIGHT CHANGE HIS TUNE..in these situations the man usually blames the woman for his indulgence so that he does not have to face he has a porblem..plus how many wives will actually do all the perverted things you see in porn?Theres your answer..
I didn't mid if we were watching it together but when he was watching it alone instead of coming to bed at night, or when he was watching it behind my back- that's when I had a problem with it. It became an addiction for him and was too much for me to handle.
CCSeg200 - made a point about saying you need to make yourself desirable to him.Somehow I feel your situation has gone beyond that and that you have probably given up and or refuse to 'compete'. Do you still try? Can you give me some more insight as I really do understand how you would be feeling.
mine does not watch it. but if he did i would feel exactly the way you do. i do not see the point of it. it would make me feel like i wasnt enough. maybe u should talk to him and tell him how u feel? i hope u sort it out with each other and things get better.
Ummm you're weird.
y would u let yr husband watch porn??? that's so stupid! doesn't he have any respect for you???!!!